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Hi, I’m Kiana – Mistress Kiana to those who serve me! I’m a London-based pro-domme. The kink I’m best known for is probably strapon – both the sensual kind and the poundings that guys take a while to walk away from. But more generally I’m known for blending femininity with power & athleticism (I’ve got the six-pack and guns, but I’m tiny), never sitting down, loving fun and experiences, and wearing my heart on my sleeve.
I crave experiences, excitement. Oh, and rule-breaking and flouting conventions! As Mistress Kiana I get all of that, and get to be a bossy bitch too. What’s not to like?
A negative misconception is that I only exist to fulfil others’ fantasies – almost that I only exist in others’ fantasies. If a guy is horny and fantasising about me at 4am, then he’ll ping me wanting to talk, session or whatever. Its nice to be popular (!), but the idea I might be walking the dogs, doing the dishes, or sleeping, doesn’t figure in the guy’s fantasy. Multiply that by 10, 100 or a 1000 guys and it can be draining. But I guess everyone finds it hard to switch off from their work nowadays!
Another misconception is that BDSM is a single kink or fetish, and that everyone is into the same things, for the same reasons. Just take one kink, caning, for example. Some of my clients want to be caned because they enjoy the physical sensation, the sting, the spreading heat. Others crave the mix of that pain with the pleasure of me whispering sweet nothings in their ear and encouraging them through it. Some are playing out their fantasy that they’ve been bad and need to be punished. For some its a macho thing – can they take it, unbroken. Others are reliving memories from childhood or school years. Whether its as a pro-domme, or playing with a partner, understanding each other’s motivations and what turns you on or gives you pleasure is really important to making it a positive, life-affirming experience.
I’m not just a brutal, sadistic bitch! As Kiana I absolutely love whipping a guy, breaking him down until he’s begging me to stop. Or pounding my strapon sluts. You’ve all seen my clips on the web – you know I enjoy my work!
But away from Kiana a huge thing for me is looking out for the vulnerable. Whether its animals, children, the old or the infirm. Before I became Mistress Kiana I worked a lot in social services – both with young people and in end of life care. I took a lot from that, and its an ambition again for the future, in some shape or form.
Maybe this doesn’t quite fit – but I remember one guy messaging me to say he thought I was the hottest TS on the web! I slapped him down, but he didn’t miss a beat – just came back with “So, anyway, can I book a session?”
Stay safe. Know what you’re comfortable with, and what you’re not, and stay true to yourself on that. Trust your instincts.
Thankfully I’ve stayed healthy, but I know others who’ve been less fortunate. Professionally its hugely reduced the face to face sessioning I’ve done – its exactly the kind of close quarters interaction we’ve had to avoid. Hopefully we’re coming out of it now in the UK. On the plus side I did find a new audience for online instruction – those in hotel quarantine!
Recently I’ve also been putting a lot of work into my other persona – “Fit Kiana”. Fit Kiana is all about the body, the muscles, fitness, and being a strong, confident black woman, but with less of the kink!
Maybe “Je ne regrette rien”, “I did it my way” or “that don’t impress me much”
Mistress Kiana is a pro-domme, regular on the scene, and has performed at the TG Pearl Necklace! You can find out more about her work and follow her on Twitter @StraponKiana or find out more at https://mistresskiana.co.uk/
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