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In this article Debbie discusses hers and her partner Pavel’s unique take on BDSM, and some fun ideas that you might want to incorporate into your own play!
I love sex, but what I love even more is the kink surrounding it. The seduction, flirtation, temptation, power play and, most of all, the ultimate submission I crave to give. There is no doubt around it; I am a Submissive, one with strong needs. Needs to feel free, needs to give up control, and needs to be controlled. By submitting myself fully to my Dom, I gain internal strength and euphoric peace within. Some may call it Subspace, but for me, I call it liberating.
Apart from being a Submissive, I am also a masochist. I feel every single bit of pleasure in pain. Extreme play doesn’t scare me; it really turns me on. With Pavel, my life partner and Dom, we have tried many of the sex toys out there, played a lot of role play and adventured in extreme kinks like knife play, pin play and BDSM branding, which you can all read about on orgasmicways.
Basically, we are not Vanilla in any way, although we do enjoy the occasionally tantric, prolonged Vanilla fuck. We do have one kink that very few people know about, and that is the Orgasmic Sex Games kink.
It is a kink for connecting and enjoying long, playful sex sessions. A kink for letting go of whatever is happening in the world around you, to just carelessly have fun. But most importantly, the orgasmic Sex Games is a kink to simply make you do something during sex that you probably just wouldn’t have done before.
Let’s put it this way; I have sucked Sir’s manhood while balancing a grape on my butthole. I have been wrapped up in beer caps and bondage tape; I have barked for permission to use the bathroom; and I have drawn a rabbit while being taken from behind.
These are things I might not have done if it wasn’t for the Orgasmic Sex Games.
Creating sex games and scene ideas is something I have been doing most of my adult life, but it was only when I met Sir that the games took a real BDSM twist.
They are made for BDSM: simple, adaptable and the top will always be the top, unless you consciously want to switch it up. But as far as the dynamics go, they do not change. And although these games are made within a Dom-Sub relationship, they are easily adaptable to play in a Femdom relationship too. A lot of the games are more of concepts, challenges, or ideas, rather than real games. For exactly that reason, VERY adventurous Vanillas could play some of the Orgasmic Sex Games too.
Whenever Sir agrees to play a game with me, I go into my ‘little’ state. Proudly, I read to him a few games/concepts I have created, with him in my fantasy. I look at his face for any twitch or hint that might give me a clue about what is going through his mind. Which concept does he like the most? What will our night be like? Tantric? Playful? Painful?
After Sir chooses the concept, he adds on his own creativity. Before I know, I could be lying on a blanket covered in ice-cream and chocolate-flavoured massage oil with a cone standing up from my butt. Our dirty minds blend together. And the next day I write about it, making it into an Orgasmic Sex Game.
The creations we make, the games we play and the pictures we take bonds us as a couple. Sex is so much more than just penetration. It is exploration, discovery, connection, intimacy and fun. And by doing something that both of us have never done before, we keep the passion in our relationship alive.
Creating erotic games has always been a passion of mine and I have done it for most of my adult life. Mostly it was for personal play but when Corona struck, Sir suggested we could make Digital Versions and share it with the world.
So, that is pretty much what we did and are still doing. Creating games, BDSM manuals, shooting pictures and transforming them in a digital game.
If you look up the word ‘kink’ in the dictionary, it will be described as a bizarre or unconventional sexual preferences or behaviour.
And unless if having sex while holding 2 nipple buckets filled with water is not bizarre, I think the Orgasmic Sex Games could certainly be qualified as a kink.
All our Games and soon-to-come BDSM manual are accessible to Members only. To become a Member, you simply register on Orgasmicways and keep an eye on your emails.
We are all about spicing up already kinky sex and building a fun community around it.
Anybody curious enough to adventure?
Thank you for reading this article and hope to see you soon on our Site!
Have an orgasmic day,
Debby and Pavel
Website: orgasmicways.com
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